For most men and women, their partners are complete anomalies. It can be difficult to decipher from the classic “I’m fine” – meaning “I’m complacent” – and the other “I’m fine” – meaning “back the hell up!”
We’re taught to conceal our negative emotions and engage in these social courting rituals that slowly break down the foundation of a good relationship from the beginning. Women are taught to make men chase them, while men are taught to be aloof and pretend they don’t care.
When anyone of any gender feels a genuine connection with a love interest, we get elated, we feel giddy, and our thoughts seem to consistently drift toward the person with whom we wish to share affection.
As our feelings seem to be ever in conflict with our actions when it comes to contemporary courting, I thought it was time to offer up some new ways to develop and completely enjoy that special connection we all desire. Continue reading